How far along are you on your journey to self-discovery?
Have you discovered the reason for which you are on the earth?
Do you understand how marriage fits into your life’s purpose?
How comfortable are you with who you are as an individual?
Have you been able to identify and address your personal strengths and weaknesses?
1 out of 16 How committed are you to continuous personal development?
Do you understand your core values?
Do you consider yourself whole and properly rooted in your identity?
How would you generally describe your life as a single with respect to your desire to be married?
Which of these are you likely to do to make your spouse happy?
2 out of 16 Are you currently upset at someone who hurt you in the past?
Have you resolved past traumas or emotional baggage?
How effectively have you learned to manage your emotions?
How do you vent when angry, upset, disappointed, or betrayed?
How well do you love being by yourself?
Are you prepared to support your partner emotionally?
3 out of 16 How well can you express love and affection to your partner?
Will you be happy to marry someone like you?
How do you typically handle abuse and toxic relationships?
Which of these sounds like predominant thoughts you hold about marriage and the opposite sex?
How will you rate your ability to invest quality time and effort into creating meaningful connections with others?
4 out of 16 Do you know what your love languages are?
Do you know how to communicate openly and honestly?
How well do you practice being fully present in conversations?
How comfortable are you with being emotionally vulnerable with your partner?
How would you describe your ability to listen empathetically to your partner, especially when they express opinions that differ from yours?
5 out of 16 How would you handle situations where you feel hurt or misunderstood by your partner?
How would you likely manage personal insecurities within your marriage?
What will you do when you want your partner to understand something you’ve always complained about?
Generally, what’s usually your overall goal when you communicate with others?
6 out of 16 How well do you currently forgive the people around you when they hurt you?
How do you typically respond when faced with a disagreement about a deeply rooted issue (e.g., values, family, finances)?
How capable of forgiving and letting go of grudges are you?
Can you discuss difficult topics without becoming defensive?
Who do you believe should apologize first during a relationship conflict?
Have you figured out how to practice forgiveness for your marriage?
7 out of 16 Which of these conflict resolution methods resonates well with you?
When conflict arises in your marriage, what will your stance likely be?
How willing are you to seek opportunities to learn about and understand your partner’s changing desires and boundaries?
How would you react if your partner disagreed with your views or beliefs?
When you disagree with your spouse, how important would it be for you to have the last word?
8 out of 16 Have you established a stable income source?
Are you prepared to handle finances with transparency with your partner?
How do you currently handle financial disagreements with family or close friends?
What financial habits are you likely to carry into your marriage?
When you think about combining bank accounts with your partner, how does it make you feel?
9 out of 16 Who do you think should shoulder the financial responsibilities in a marriage?
What are you likely to do if your spouse gets unemployed?
What is your predominant mindset about money?
Are you willing to share financial goals with your spouse?
If your spouse has a different financial philosophy than you, how would you handle it?
10 out of 16 Do you believe you can respect your partner’s individuality and autonomy?
How Important do you believe trust is to a healthy marriage?
How do you feel about the balance between maintaining independence and being committed to each other in marriage?
Does the way your partner treats other people matter to you?
What are your thoughts on setting boundaries with your family?
11 out of 16 How important is it for you (when married) to have clear boundaries with your ex-partners?
Do you have friends or a supportive community outside your intended marriage environment?
So, it’s Friday evening, and you and your spouse already have a culture of going on dates every Friday. But your friends decide to schedule a meet-up that clashes with your date. What are you likely to do?
What are your thoughts on boundaries with the opposite sex?
Which of these sounds like your opinion on boundaries and boundary setting?
12 out of 16 Why do you want to get married?
Which definition of marriage resonates with you the most?
What is the most important thing you are looking out for in your future spouse?
Do you believe you can recognize red flags in a potential spouse?
Are you ready to prioritize your marriage relationship above your individual desires?
How willing are you to keep the flames of love burning your marriage?
13 out of 16 Do you have a vision for your marriage in the next five years, and are you currently taking steps to adequately contribute your quota?
What are your predominant thoughts about love in marriage?
Are you ready to commit to your partner for life, regardless of circumstances?
How do you envision sharing household responsibilities after marriage?
When the time comes, will you be open to discussing your sexual needs and boundaries with your spouse?
14 out of 16 What does your relationship with God look like?
What role do you believe God should play in your choice of a spouse?
How willing are you to heed the voice of God concerning an action He would want you to take in your marriage, even when it will be uncomfortable or illogical?
Do you see marriage as a means to spiritual growth and holiness rather than a means to attain personal happiness alone?
How ready are you to honor the covenant of marriage?
How willing are you to sacrificially lead and love your wife (as a man) and fully submit to your husband’s leadership (as a woman)?
15 out of 16 Do you believe it is important to discuss your views on religion and spirituality with your partner?
Is it important that your partner shares your faith?
How well do you currently allow God to point out your shortcomings and character flaws to you for improvement?
Are you open to spiritual mentorship and accountability in your marital journey?
What are your thoughts about serving your spouse?
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